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Lai

LAY · of uncertain origin; possibly a short form of names with the element 'lai' or a variant of Lei.

Peak popularity
1984
Usually for
Girls
Trend
Holding steady

Holding steady.

Popularity of Lai since 1953

Babies named Lai per year in U.S. Social Security records.

611171960198020002020Most births 1984GirlsBoys
GirlsBoys
Data table (by decade)
DecadeGirlsBoys
1950s50
1960s50
1970s260
1980s9417
1990s848
2000s110
2010s60
2020s00

Meaning & origin

Lai is an uncommon name in the United States, first recorded in 1953. Its usage has remained stable over time, with a peak year in 1984 when it was given to a handful of babies. As of 2025, the name continues to be used rarely and is not among the top 1000 names. The lack of a clear single origin gives Lai a multicultural appeal, drawing from French, Chinese, and Hawaiian roots. Because it is so rare, Lai stands out as a distinctive choice for parents seeking a short, simple name with global resonance.

The name Lai has multiple possible origins. In French, it may be derived from the Old French word 'lai' meaning 'song' or 'lay,' a type of medieval poem. In Chinese, it can be a surname (赖) meaning 'rely' or a given name meaning 'rely' or 'depend on.' In Hawaiian, Lai means 'calm' or 'serene.' Its use as a given name in the United States is rare and appears to have been adopted from various cultural sources. The name has seen sporadic usage since the mid-20th century.

Nicknames & variants

Variants: Lei, Lay

Sibling names for Lai

Names that share Lai's style, for a brother or sister.

Sisters: Mae, Kai, Nia, Lea, Rae

Brothers: Kai, Noa, Tae, Jai, Zay

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Questions parents ask

What does the name Lai mean?
The meaning of Lai is uncertain; it may derive from French 'lay' (a type of song), Chinese '赖' (to rely), or Hawaiian 'lai' (calm or serene).
Is Lai a popular name?
No. Lai is very rare and has never ranked among the top 1000 names in the United States. Its peak year was 1984, with fewer than five recorded births.
Is Lai a boy's or girl's name?
Lai is used primarily for girls, though it is occasionally given to boys.