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Esmay

EZ-may · Of uncertain origin; possibly a variant of Esmé meaning 'esteemed' or 'beloved'.

2025 rank (girls)
#4,878
Babies named in 2025
27
Peak popularity
2020
2025 frequency
1 in 59,528 girls
Usually for
Girls
Trend
Rising since 2009

Rising since 2009, #4,878 for girls today.

Popularity of Esmay since 2009

Babies named Esmay per year in U.S. Social Security records.

12233520102020Most births 2020Girls
Data table (by decade)
DecadeGirls
2000s5
2010s140
2020s148

Meaning & origin

Esmay is a modern feminine name that first appeared on U.S. birth charts in 2009, a time when vowel-rich, soft-ending names were gaining favor. By 2025, it held rank 4,878, with about 1 in 59,528 newborns receiving the name, reflecting steady but modest use. Its peak year so far was 2020, suggesting a brief surge in popularity. The trajectory since 2009 indicates rising adoption, aligning with trends for names ending in 'ay'. Esmay has not yet appeared in any top state rankings, underscoring its niche status. As a variant of the gender-neutral Esmé, it carries an air of French-derived elegance while its 'ay' spelling gives it a distinctly American contemporary twist. Parents choosing Esmay often pair it with classic or nature-inspired sibling names.

Esmay is a modern English spelling variant of Esmé, which derives from the Old French past participle 'esmé', meaning 'esteemed' or 'beloved'. The name Esmé was historically unisex but has become more common for girls in recent decades. Esmay first appeared in U.S. records in 2009, likely as a creative respelling or a feminized form.

Nicknames & variants

Nicknames: Ezzie, May

Variants: Esmé, Esmee

Sibling names for Esmay

Names that share Esmay's style, for a brother or sister.

Sisters: Aria, Isla, Mila, Nora, Violet

Brothers: Caleb, Ethan, Liam, Noah, Oliver

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Questions parents ask

What does Esmay mean?
Esmay is likely a variant of Esmé, derived from Old French meaning 'esteemed' or 'beloved'. However, its exact meaning may be uncertain due to its modern spelling.
How popular is Esmay?
As of 2025, Esmay ranked 4,878 in the U.S., with approximately 1 in 59,528 births. Its popularity peaked in 2020.
Is Esmay a boy or girl name?
Esmay is predominantly used for girls, though historically Esmé has been unisex.